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My partner is not happy

Question: We are doing well in business. However, my partner always thinks we are not doing well-enough. It is difficult to make him feel happy.

Naran

You and your associates are able to feel happy, while your partner sees otherwise means that his mind is distorting the fact. He is both deleting the fact that you are doing well in business and at the same time, he is not seeing the reality – called as DISTORTION in NLP.

How to make him understand the reality?

Ask him to affirm:

“I release the part, which ignores the fact that we are doing well in business”.

“I activate the part that understands we are doing well in business”.

Question: I doubt he will do the affirmation. Can I do the chanting for him?

Naran

Affirm:

“I release the part in me that activates his unhappiness about our growth in business”.

“I am OPEN and ALIGN with the part that makes him feel happy about our business growth”.

To know why you are the creator of his behavior, you need to understand what Shadow Self is and how it operates on us. Please attend the class on Oct 19th: http://wp.me/p31KXo-1Y

Related Blogs:

Move UP: http://wp.me/ptUIO-O

Find whether your partner is genuine or not: http://wp.me/ptULP-1g

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ABC of Getting Employed

ABC

I am really depressed about my job.

I was working in a good IT company, but it was for contract basis of 6 months. They initially said they would take me to on roll after 6 months seeing my performance. I really worked hard, but after 6 months they did not take me on role and said have extended contract for next 6 months.

I was bit depressed, but felt bit ok at least I have a job. After a month suddenly they informed I need to leave the job as I took one week of leave for health issue. But, I had compensated and worked that one week as well.

Now I am job less. Where ever I go for interview I get rejected. Pls suggest me what can I do

M

Check out the blog, “Got a job within first week of placement”: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/11/16/got-a-job-within-first-week-of-placement/

ABC

I want to share one of the happiest incident happened. I had lost my job 10 days back, and wherever I go for interview I get rejected.

I had posted my request and I was advised to read the article about jobs.

I called WOLF for assistance on each round, people who came for interview from morning was rejected in some or the other round. I was scared too much. Later, I was the only person who got selected for the day in TCS.

Thanks wolf, thanks Naran.

Sales Exam

Ashok

I received a call from my manager to give a presentation to a group of clients. I was asked to do it because I was the project manager who developed a core module of our Trading Software.

But, the problem is, we developed it three years back. How I am going to remember the features of the product!

Add to the misery is the fact, being a technical guy, how I am going to explain the business functions of the product!!

Of course, I can’t say no.

So, I called my 24/7 guiding angel Naran. On the way to office, he asked me to pick something from him, which will help me to do the presentation well.

He gave me the symbol 2 and asked me to keep it with me, while I gave the presentation. I did and I can’t believe the way I did. It went on well. Our clients as well as my manager were quite impressed.

In fact, when I later learned from Naran, that symbol can be given to students, to remember during their exam, I couldn’t stop laughing it myself.

Please refer the link to know more about the symbol:

“2 Recall-During-Exam”: http://wp.me/p3zawE-1i