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My partner is not happy

Question: We are doing well in business. However, my partner always thinks we are not doing well-enough. It is difficult to make him feel happy.

Naran

You and your associates are able to feel happy, while your partner sees otherwise means that his mind is distorting the fact. He is both deleting the fact that you are doing well in business and at the same time, he is not seeing the reality – called as DISTORTION in NLP.

How to make him understand the reality?

Ask him to affirm:

“I release the part, which ignores the fact that we are doing well in business”.

“I activate the part that understands we are doing well in business”.

Question: I doubt he will do the affirmation. Can I do the chanting for him?

Naran

Affirm:

“I release the part in me that activates his unhappiness about our growth in business”.

“I am OPEN and ALIGN with the part that makes him feel happy about our business growth”.

To know why you are the creator of his behavior, you need to understand what Shadow Self is and how it operates on us. Please attend the class on Oct 19th: http://wp.me/p31KXo-1Y

Related Blogs:

Move UP: http://wp.me/ptUIO-O

Find whether your partner is genuine or not: http://wp.me/ptULP-1g

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Life is so purposeless

ANDWHYNOTISAY
I really need your help for my miserable situation. On surface it looks good.

I live in US and came to do medical residency (post-graduate training). I passed all my required exams and thought I was successful, but for the last 4 years I could not get residency training.

I don’t know the reason why, maybe discrimination, or something else.

Nowadays, doing petty odd jobs and have become the laughing-stock of my family and in-laws.

Please teach me the right switch words to turn my situation around and help me find a residency. My life is so purposeless now.

Naran

Chant “SWEET CHESTNUT, CHESTNUT BUD, WILD ROSE, ROCK ROSE” daily, continuously for 15 minutes in the morning and 15 minutes in the evening for 21 days.

Explanation

Life is dry for him, having failed after several attempts. Like rain brings joy during times of drought, this mantra which brings rain also will bring joy in his life.

Negative atmosphere @Office

Rajji

My sister has got and lost jobs every few months. Always the atmosphere at her office is negative. Also, she hardly gets any notice period.

She is separated from her husband and lives together with a college-going girl.

Please suggest a chant that she can do to get a good job in a friendly environment, with good pay and closer to home as well. Getting a government job would be really great.

Naran

Ask her to chant “HOLLY, MIMULUS”.

Ask her to thank every person and every event in the day.

Ask her to thank all the persons in her life and all the events in her life.

Explanation

HOLLY and MIMULUS are Bach Flower Remedies. Together they work for friendly atmosphere. To know more about Holly: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/05/the-universal-lover/

Dream Job

Overweight Girl

Every time I take up a job I go in with lots of enthusiasm and within a week I think this is not my job and be doing something else.

What can I do to get a job that I love and go high up the ladder soon?

When I go to work feel bored and do not know how to make myself interested and keep myself busy.

I am fed up.

I want to get up in the morning and want to go to work with interest.

Naran

It is better you take the flower remedies WILD OAT, WALNUT and HORNBEAM.

Explanation

Unhappy in the present job: WILD OAT

Feeling bored: WALNUT

Morning blues: HORNBEAM

Sales Exam

Ashok

I received a call from my manager to give a presentation to a group of clients. I was asked to do it because I was the project manager who developed a core module of our Trading Software.

But, the problem is, we developed it three years back. How I am going to remember the features of the product!

Add to the misery is the fact, being a technical guy, how I am going to explain the business functions of the product!!

Of course, I can’t say no.

So, I called my 24/7 guiding angel Naran. On the way to office, he asked me to pick something from him, which will help me to do the presentation well.

He gave me the symbol 2 and asked me to keep it with me, while I gave the presentation. I did and I can’t believe the way I did. It went on well. Our clients as well as my manager were quite impressed.

In fact, when I later learned from Naran, that symbol can be given to students, to remember during their exam, I couldn’t stop laughing it myself.

Please refer the link to know more about the symbol:

“2 Recall-During-Exam”: http://wp.me/p3zawE-1i