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My partner is not happy
Posted by Naran S. Balakumar
Question: We are doing well in business. However, my partner always thinks we are not doing well-enough. It is difficult to make him feel happy.
Naran
You and your associates are able to feel happy, while your partner sees otherwise means that his mind is distorting the fact. He is both deleting the fact that you are doing well in business and at the same time, he is not seeing the reality – called as DISTORTION in NLP.
How to make him understand the reality?
Ask him to affirm:
“I release the part, which ignores the fact that we are doing well in business”.
“I activate the part that understands we are doing well in business”.
Question: I doubt he will do the affirmation. Can I do the chanting for him?
Naran
Affirm:
“I release the part in me that activates his unhappiness about our growth in business”.
“I am OPEN and ALIGN with the part that makes him feel happy about our business growth”.
To know why you are the creator of his behavior, you need to understand what Shadow Self is and how it operates on us. Please attend the class on Oct 19th: http://wp.me/p31KXo-1Y
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Find whether your partner is genuine or not: http://wp.me/ptULP-1g
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Ensure Success @ Work
Posted by Naran S. Balakumar
Rani
I am working with an MNC as project manager in their software sector. I have been assigned a project and I am desperate to make it successful. Is there a switch word that will help me to overcome obstacles and ensure success at my work?
Naran
Chant “GENTIAN, LARCH, TOGETHER DIVINE”
Rani
I don’t know how to thank you. I was completely confused at the beginning. But, now I am more confident and I see the entire team helping me out, including the ones who are known to be arrogant.
Thank you for your guidance!!!
Explanation
Gentian and Larch are Bach Flower Remedies, while Together and Divine are Switch words.
For confidence: LARCH
Happy outcome: GENTIAN
Getting cooperation, help and support from everybody in the team: TOGETHER DIVINE
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