My partner is not happy
Question: We are doing well in business. However, my partner always thinks we are not doing well-enough. It is difficult to make him feel happy.
You and your associates are able to feel happy, while your partner sees otherwise means that his mind is distorting the fact. He is both deleting the fact that you are doing well in business and at the same time, he is not seeing the reality – called as DISTORTION in NLP.
How to make him understand the reality?
Ask him to affirm:
“I release the part, which ignores the fact that we are doing well in business”.
“I activate the part that understands we are doing well in business”.
Question: I doubt he will do the affirmation. Can I do the chanting for him?
“I release the part in me that activates his unhappiness about our growth in business”.
“I am OPEN and ALIGN with the part that makes him feel happy about our business growth”.
To know why you are the creator of his behavior, you need to understand what Shadow Self is and how it operates on us. Please attend the class on Oct 19th: http://wp.me/p31KXo-1Y
Move UP: http://wp.me/ptUIO-O
Find whether your partner is genuine or not: http://wp.me/ptULP-1g
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Don’t beg from the divine
You have asked me to write “release resistance find divine order count now” for 51 times daily. I do that. I chant Ambika Sloka like mad, beg wolf every day and still no job interviews.
I ask loads of people but no one helps me–what more should I do? I need a job as soon as possible and am helpless. I beg divine so much and what more can I do?
Don’t beg from the divine. Take it from the Divine.
Daily in the morning say three times,” I thank divine for giving me a job of my choice. Then forget about it.
Why is this happening to me? The only thing I ever ask god for myself is a job. I help loads of people and never I think ill of others and genuinely pray for people – why am I being punished?
You will definitely get a job. Instead of having a victim feeling, have the attitude of gratitude.
Instead of “why me” question, understand God is doing everything perfect. He will do everything at the right time.
What is the right time? Think and thank the divine that you have had already right time.
Every day, morning, say, three times, “I open up all parts of my mind and align them to resonate to the Divine grace of money. I thank the Divine for providing me the job of my choice now. I release this intention to the all providing divine field.”
Forget about this and concentrate on something else.
Daily in the night think back and thank god for everything that happened in your life. Each and every incident leads to the other. Nothing is unwanted or not needed.
Whatever happened – bad or good – thank the divine for that.
Shed tears of gratitude towards your parents, your friends, relatives, your house and your environment, the air you breathe, the dress you wear, the food you take, the water you drink.
Do you know how many, how many persons are behind your one day food? Thank all those persons – right from vegetable grower, seller, his storage place, vendor, and his cart – so many are there.
Think about the link of the persons to your one day food and thank everyone.
Why not this internet which connects you and me? Thank the Internet too.
Build up the energy of love in your heart and start living with contentment. You will get the job.
If your victim feeling can help you to get the job, be in that state. Otherwise be in a state of gratitude.
You are not helping anybody. You are privileged – you are selected by god – to help those people. You are indebted to them.
Help them with full heart. But don’t expect anything from them. If you do the help without expecting any appreciation, you will advance the Time.
- FORGIVE LOVE THANK is the mantra for your life.
- To come out of victim feeling, take Bach flower remedies WILLOW and PINE each two pills two times a day for one month.
Best of luck
When Jobless: https://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/05/26/when-jobless/
Thank you for the Divine Help: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2012/05/29/thank-you-for-the-divine-help-during-this-time-of-my-life/
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Every time I take up a job I go in with lots of enthusiasm and within a week I think this is not my job and be doing something else.
What can I do to get a job that I love and go high up the ladder soon?
When I go to work feel bored and do not know how to make myself interested and keep myself busy.
I am fed up.
I want to get up in the morning and want to go to work with interest.
It is better you take the flower remedies WILD OAT, WALNUT and HORNBEAM.
Unhappy in the present job: WILD OAT
Feeling bored: WALNUT
Morning blues: HORNBEAM
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Work towards a Great JOB
- WATER VIOLET, LARCH – to have self-confidence
- ELM – to answer any unexpected question; to fill up the requirement for a particular job
- AGRIMONY – mental turbulence repressed behind a cheerful smiling face
- GENTIAN – if you think about previous failure or pessimistic to heal expectation of failure
- WILD ROSE – to feel enthusiastic
After the interview
- HONEY SUCKLE – not to think about what happened in the interview
- ASPEN + GENTIAN + WILD ROSE – if you are expecting a call
For work-related stress
- RESCUE REMEDY – always take it
- OLIVE – physical tiredness due to overwork
- HORNBEAM – morning feeling unmotivated to go to work
- VERVAIN + WHITE CHESTNUT+HORNBEAM – unable to switch off after the office work
Meeting the deadlines
- Always pushed for time , therefore skipping important work – SCLERANTHUS + VERVAIN + IMPATIENS + HORNBEAM + RESCUE REMEDY
- No time for social life – VERVAIN + WILD ROSE
- Everyday given extra work, unable to say “No” , Unable to go home in time – CHICORY + CENTAURY + VERVAIN + WILLOW
- Monday I dread to go to work – HORNBEAM
- Too much interference in my work – CENTAURY + WILLOW + IMPATIENS+ CHERRY PLUM
- My colleagues are slow in completing the work – CHERRY PLUM + IMPATIENS
- Unable to delegate –OAK + WATER VIOLET + HORNBEAM
- Working more willingly but unable to prioritize my work – VERVAIN, SCLERANTHUS
- I find my work too much, I need a holiday – VERVAIN + ROCK WATER
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The Bach Flower Remedy Oak
Workaholic: if there is no work he will get fever. He will comment that during the whole day he doesn’t have pain, but when he goes to sleep he gets pain.
He doesn’t want company. His first wife is work. He doesn’t want to apply for leave. He will not apply for leave for attending functions.
How Oak could help in heart problem. Oak is the strongest tree. It can grow in any soil. It represents strength and solidity and therefore it will strengthen the heart.
Thanks to Elm, Oak and Olive you can go up any stairs.
A software engineer couldn’t find bugs after so many attempts: Oak
Trekking – Elm, Oak, Olive, and Walnut is necessary.
Oak is a hard worker but not a smart worker.
Shantha had a problem with her motor that is used to pump water. The motor mechanic couldn’t find the source of the problem even after a week. She gave Oak in his tea. Within a day, the problem was fixed.
Thus, for any nagging problems like court cases and adjournments take Oak with Walnut and Hornbeam.
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